The Power of ‘Thank You’

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The Power of ‘Thank You’

Science has measured the amazing effects of gratitude in our lives. Food for thought as we approach Thanksgiving.

Why is it good to say “thank you”? Is it simply because it’s polite? A mere courtesy? According to an article published in the October 2007 Reader’s Digest, experts have found that those who make it a point to practice gratitude sleep better, exercise more, feel more optimistic and less materialistic, are more empathetic and joyful, and can even have sharper minds.

“As science is now proving, feeling grateful can actually make us healthier, literally,” the article states.

Robert Emmons, a professor at the University of California-Davis, and Michael McCullough of the University of Miami teamed up for a fascinating study: The examination of three groups of people—one group noting the hassles of each week, one concentrating on things for which they were grateful, and another recording ordinary life events. Not only did the grateful group come out of the study (not surprisingly) happier, they “reported fewer negative physical symptoms such as headaches or colds, and they were active in ways that were good for them. They spent almost an hour and a half more per week exercising than those who focused on hassles. Plain and simple, those who were grateful had a higher quality of life” (ibid.).

The results of the study, published in 2003, also showed Emmons how those around the grateful group were impacted by their joy and energy. They “even seemed to be perceived as more helpful toward others, going out on a limb to help people,” said Emmons. “This is not just something that makes people happy, like a positive-thinking/optimism kind of thing. A feeling of gratitude really gets people to do something, to become more pro-social, more compassionate.”

In a more recent follow-up study focusing on college students, they found that “those who found something to appreciate every day were less materialistic—less apt to see a connection between life satisfaction and material things. They were more willing to part with their possessions. … The grateful people were less depressive, envious and anxious, and much more likely to help others …” (ibid.).

Though we live in a country that sets aside one day a year for thankfulness, this article points out that those who were in a continuously grateful mindset had the following benefits: “clearer thinking, better resilience during tough times, higher immune response, less likelihood of being plagued by stress, longer lives, closer family ties, greater religiousness.”

It found that doctors who were more thankful were better able to diagnose difficult medical conditions.

Scientifically, it makes sense. Dopamine is a chemical that is released “when people are feeling good …. It activates the parts of the brain in which complex thinking and conflict resolution are thought to be headquartered” (ibid.).

The emotional and physical benefits of gratitude are truly astounding—and nothing new, despite science’s recent endorsement of it. The late Herbert W. Armstrong—who often said that ingratitude was possibly our greatest sin—lived 93 years of an active, abundant life. He repeatedly stressed seven principles, or laws, of radiant health, the seventh of which is a positive mental attitude. A proverb says: “A merry heart doeth good like a medicine: but a broken spirit drieth the bones” (Proverbs 17:22).

Here is a specific way to develop a “merry heart.” Be more thankful.

The Holy Bible repeatedly commands it. One verse in particular says that, even when making requests of God, to do so in an attitude of thankfulness: “in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God” (Philippians 4:6).

The Reader’s Digest author suggests ways to become more thankful: “Record your thanks.” Each day, she suggests, “jot down three things that happened that day for which you are grateful … and why this was good for you.” In addition to the gratitude journal, the author also suggests observing the patterns. “Over time, you’ll notice a consistency within the list of items you’re grateful for. Many entries will underscore the importance of people in your life. Others will highlight meaningful experiences.”

Finally, she suggests, “Seize the moment.” Start right now, putting yourself in a gratitude mindset—and see the benefits to your mental, physical, emotional and even spiritual health. Let gratitude dominate your thinking and your life and reap the blessings today.